by Amy Rau, Oklahoma City Photographer
You’ve booked your family session—yay! And then… the spiral begins:
What do we wear?
What if the kids melt down?
What if we spend all this money and I hate the photos?
Take a deep breath, friend. Let’s quiet the chaos.
After more than eight years photographing families, I’ve learned that a little preparation (and a lot of letting go) makes a big difference. Here are a few tips to help you get the most out of your time in front of the camera—so you walk away with photos you actually love.
TIME MATTERS
Light is everything. Your Oklahoma City photographer will guide you on the best time for that soft, golden glow—usually just after sunrise or close to sunset. Trust their judgment, and whatever you do… be on time. Light fades fast, and showing up late can cut your session (and your gallery) short.
LOCATION, LOCATION
Not all spots are created equal. I have a handful of favorite locations in and around OKC—each with its own kind of magic depending on the time of day and the season. Let’s chat about the look you’re going for, and we’ll find a backdrop that feels just right for your family.
SKIP THE PRE-SESSION FIGHT
We’ve all been there—trying to wrangle kids, running late, partner is less than thrilled to be photographed, tension is high. But here’s the truth: that energy shows up in your photos. Give yourself plenty of time to get ready. Deep breaths. Think of this as a fun (yes, fun!) family outing, not a performance.
LET YOUR KIDS BE THEMSELVES
Please don’t stress if your kids are wild. I actually love that. Real connection doesn’t come from perfect smiles—it comes from laughter, movement, chaos, and cuddles. I’ve got tricks up my sleeve to connect with your little ones and draw out their personalities. You just get to enjoy them.
TALK TO ME
If there’s a vibe, feeling, or specific photo you’ve been dreaming about, tell me. I’m all ears. Share some inspiration or ideas beforehand, and let me know what matters most to you. The more I know, the more intentional your session can be.
TRUST THE PROCESS
You chose me for a reason—and I don’t take that lightly. When you trust your Oklahoma City photographer to guide the session and follow their lead, it opens the door to honest, beautiful, creatively-driven work. Your only job is to be present with your people.
When you show up open, relaxed, and ready to connect, that’s when the magic happens.
